National
Day Calendar Best Friends Day – June 8th
Written
by SurfWriter Girls Sunny Magdaug and Patti Kishel
June 8th is National Day Calendar Best Friends Day. Having a Best Friend Forever - BFF - makes life better. Someone who hands you the tissues during the weepy part of the movie. Laughs at your jokes. Listens to the same stories again...and again. Knows you better than you know yourself.
SurfWriter Girls were at the Friends of the Library
bookstore recently and saw a copy of the Susan Polis Schutz book A Friend
Forever. A bargain at just 50-cents. But the handwritten inscription inside
the cover was priceless: "Rochelle, Merry Christmas 1985. Friends forever.
Love, Terri."
Almost forty years ago the book had been given from one BFF
to another and now was waiting for someone to find it and pass it along.
SurfWriter girls wondered what happened to these best friends and hoped that
their friendship had, indeed, stood the test of time.
Much has been said and written about friendship. Shakespeare said, "Words are easy like the wind. Faithful friends are hard to find."
Renowned American poet Emily Dickinson valued her friends
so highly she wrote: "My friends are my estate."
Marilyn Monroe said, "A friend tells you what you want
to hear. A best friend tells you the truth."
Great philosophers from Socrates to Aristotle have thought
about the meaning of friendship. Socrates advised: "Be slow to
fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and
constant." Aristotle thought "friendship is a single soul
dwelling in two bodies."
Writer and poet Susan Polis Schutz is a strong believer in the power of friendship, saying, "Let us grow together and enrich our lives with the friendship we share. Let us grow together and enrich the world with the love we share."
Friendship can test your loyalty and your judgment. Be time-consuming and demanding. Make you mad and make you sad. But the joys that come from it are more than worth it. So, on National Best Friends Day why not decide to make friendship an important part of your life?
You might even achieve the ultimate and become a Best Friend
Forever.
Sunny
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